My experiences went from just reading stories about gay sex to experimenting with some of the ideas that I was reading about. At first I consciously avoided reading stories about gays having sex, but after awhile I started to read them and became aroused. My interest was first aroused when I started reading erotic stories online about all sorts of sex between men and women, between women and women, between men and men and group sex.
Over the last 6 months I have become very curious about gay sex.